I've narrowed down the problem, the gddr6x on the card gets HOT, and that is what creates a pocket of hot air between the NH-C14s and the GPU. Putting the NH-C14s into exhaust solves the problem and keeps the card very cool, put warms the GPU up slightly. Either way, the temperatures aren't fatal to the CPU or GPU right now, but I really dont like stagnant pockets of hot air in the case.
3 other solutions I am thinking of:
1. Keep the NH-C14s in intake but put a fan on the back of the GPU where the card's memory is, it would be exhausting up into the NH-C14s heatsink.
2. switch to a tower style cooler <155mm in exhaust out the back of the case (i have standoffs on the side panel for the extra 6-7mm)
3. Rear mount the SFX PSU and run a 280mm AIO on the top of the case as exhaust, the AIO rad and fans would both be external to the case and there would be no top panel - the bare rad would be exposed. If I could figure out a way to 3d print an extension to lift the top of the case by 55mm it would be perfect
In my case RTX 3090 FE was running with fine temperature (71°C) but fans were going too fast (1800rpm), too loud for my taste.
Thus I decided to try (and succeeded) full exhaust fans on C14S..

However tower style cpu cooler are not really better solution than C14S as their ambiant air will be fully warmed by GPU.
Front AIO 280mm is not great for GPU cooling as you warm all intake air.
For me, best compromise for gaming inside Cerberus-X is either C14S (exhaust mode is not ideal for CPU cooling) or Rear 92mm intake AIO (or custom loop).
I already tested this later solution, and it demonstrated great results. I'll probably test it again with RTX 3090 FE..
Here is my full report (more in link)
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Update 20th December 2020 : Taming RTX 3090 FE!
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At last, I managed to have enough time to finally test in details my RTX 3090 FE, inside my Cerberus-X.
My first trial was to keep previous setup, with front SFX PSU & C14S CPU cooler setup as intake (top & rear fans as exhasut) :
With those settings, RTX 3090 FE is delivering its full potential (GPU temperature is reaching 71°C during long gaming session with 350W power usage), however its fans never stopped to speed up till 1800rpm which is loud. This is clearly translating that GPU is exhausting more hot air than my setup is able to remove from case.
Thus, like back to 2017 (nothing new, even before serial release of Cerberus..

), I'm back to full exhaust mode on CPU cooler!
With this setup, RTX 3090 FE is stablizing at 1300 rpm @67°C.
R7 3800X@4.3Ghz fan curve needed some tweaks but it's sitting @70°C during heavy gaming load..
Like usual, here is a first draft performance from RTX 3090 FE in Gears 5 (Hive busters DLC is pretty good..

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