I do use the feature. But he's not on my list - I did mention I think he's a great guy irl. Love the energy and knowledge.FYI you can "ignore" users declutters threads and notifs very easily. I won't name names but there's a few that really made my list and so I don't have to deal with it anymore.
Anyway, I think trying to please everyone on the web (or irl) is pointless. You use steel to sharpen steel, and one friend sharpens another. A little criticism goes a long way.
A break, too, goes a long way. I keep saying it but I'd like to follow @el01 here, too much drama recently.