Hello, Hank0.
The answer to your question/problem is your CPU fan curve in the UEFI, methinks. Just lower it as far as it will go to target idle to something like 50C and load to 80C.
Delidding isn't a magic way of reducing your temperatures; it can reduce the bottleneck from die to spreader. For small form factor, this is rarely an issue because your mini-itx cooler rarely can outpace your spreader anyway once you reach full saturation/part temp. For a cool cpu like yours, delidding might give you an edge as your cooler *might* outpace TDP but sometimes delidding a CPU can result in worse temps; I know because I have a station in house and have first hand experience. You might see better temps from a delid with liquid metal TIM, but I think it would be way better for your use case just to mess with the fan curve in the UEFI.
My 2c.
Peace!