that's registered memory. it's for servers only.So I found this Kingston VLP memory at CDW for $56.99 per 8GB stick.
https://www.cdw.com/product/kingston-server-premier-ddr4-module-8-gb-dimm-288-pin-3200-mhz/6401629
It seems like a good price for 3200mhz VLP memory to me. Here is the spec sheet from Kingston with the same MFG part number:
https://www.kingston.com/datasheets/KSM32RS8L_8HDR.pdf
The timing is CL22, which I think is not great, but for the price the performance will probably be fine.
I've never purchased VLP memory before so hopefully I am getting the right thing. I figure it will be easier to return to CDW if I messed up than SuperBuy in China.
If I've done something silly someone please let me know.