Are you proposing that someone integrate 10GbE into consumer CPUs? While I would
love that, it's not happening. They haven't bothered to do that with regular GbE, so ... Yeah. 99.9% of consumers wouldn't want to pay the $100+ extra for that - and making it into specialized SKUs would require a new socket with enough pins to make this possible, which, again, doesn't make sense for platform designers or OEMs. Integrating it into a high-end chipset would make more sense, but would make that chipset both hot-running, large, and expensive, and could potentially cause bottlenecks with the CPU uplink.
Secondly: Yes, I want a socketed CPU. As does the
vast majority of other people, even here on this forum. Both to be able to choose my own CPU (rather than the 1-3 SKUs an OEM is willing to produce with soldered chips), to be able to replace/upgrade components if they fail or underperform, and to reduce costs (as soldered solutions are
always more expensive). Not to meniton cooler compatibility and all the other inherent strenghts of standardized modular systems.
Thirdly: Being happy with a 35W CPU for a particular build is not the same as buying a motherboard that
only works with 35W CPUs. Most people I've seen here re-use their hardware across quite a few configurations before it's taken out of circulation. Buying a socketed motherboard that's firmware-locked to only accept 35W CPUs would be ... impractical. Not to mention that no OEM would be willing to produce and sell this, given the obvious and major problems this would lead to (mainly
heaps of RMAs from people who can't read spec sheets or buy it by mistake). And all of this is before touching on whether OEMs would at all be allowed to sell these boards at retail, as they wouldn't be compliant with the minimum requirements of their platforms.
Fourthly: I haven't said that we "can't make physics work to put 10GbE in an ITX board". Nice straw man you've got there - is it fun arguing against it? I just said that it's incredibly difficult to squeeze this into already feature-packed consumer boards - which you haven't presented a single argument against. Given what ASRock fit into their X299 ITX, there's no doubt it can be done with a daughterboard or two. But other than that? Not likely, at least until they start making the chips on smaller process nodes.
But again, I don't see your problem here. As you've shown aplenty, if you're happy with the (severe) limitations of server/edge platforms for your use case, those often have 10GbE integrated. Go for it. Buy one, use it, be happy. The thing is, if the people discussing this topic in this thread were satisfied with that, the thread wouldn't exist. Most of us don't want the 2-minute POST times and 3-4-5x cost of these boards, nor do we want/need the use-case-specific features built into them - but we
do want better I/O, PCIe x16 for GPUs, standardized cooler compatibility, quality VRM setups, and so on. Most people want modern UEFIs and consumer-grade usability, too. Your arguments - in general - aren't really applicable. You say these are solved problems, yet all your solutions come with
massive limitations. Oh, and all of them have CPUs with integrated 10GbE - not a single one of those boards has an on-board 10GbE controller. So, unless you know how to integrate one of those into consumer-priced CPUs (for reference, the Xeon D-1541 has a 1000-unit tray price of $581) or chipset, then no, this isn't a solved engineering problem.
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